Friday, July 31, 2009
Today was fun! :D
Today was a day like no other, since there was no fighting and no nothing. I had peace at last at home, but then there always has to be another problem. It's weird that, every time I get rid of a problem, there is another problem. But well, today was also a little sad for my friends. Since they are having a difficult time knowing somethings. I get hurt by seeing my friends getting crushed by their boyfriends [broke up]. No girl like breaking up, unless you don't really like that person. Well despite the bad things. Everything in my family is doing okay. I hope that it could stay like this and for me to sleep on my bed in peace :D hehehe I am lazy at points XD. Let me have my crazy moment.(:
Parents?Riot?
OH MY GOODNESS!!
Ever been crazy about something?, that could make you go KA-BOOM?. Well here is something, parents (ring a bell?). Parents, could make anything possible just by saying something and actually doing it. I know a lot of people could get upset or irritated, by their parents. Okay here is something, do you have a bad temper and could never control it?. Well there is a way to make your temper stop. Simple. Just stop. Think.
Q- I did, but I end up being worse. I can't do it. I don't know how I can think with my anger still inside me. How?
A- Well it could be hard, but you need to try even harder. When you can, go talk someone about it. Maybe even go try to see someone you really trust, since it's bad to hold something in. Well this is what I do if I can't control my temper with my parents.
Saying wrong?
Q- But what if, the things they said were wrong. But they put more words that I never said, and turned it into something that make me go more furious about.
A- Well:
If they do that, talk to them calmly.. don't yell back or you will make it worse. Since, some parents like it when they are right or just want to know something. Keep talking to them, but in a manner that will make yourself even more comfortable or until the limit. Well if you can't hold it in then just wait, and keep trying to hold it in. Then when the conversation is over, talk to them and say about all the wrong things they said [respectfully]. Remember all the things they said are thing for your incoming life. The words your parents are saying to you now, will help you later on. So don't be yelling to make it worse, even when you don't get it, but you think you do, then just think it over. Still can't get what they were saying because of your anger then just, simply sit yourself down. Watch something nice[something you like to do]. Drink. Use the restroom[wash your face or something else o.O].
Then when you feel a little better, just go to sleep or just stay awake with the argument y'all had. But the best result ending of this is that, just talk to them tomorrow about it when everything is calm, or don't say nothing at all. Well this is all I could do [for now] about this situation.
Any question on what to do? and also to add to this problem?
Well I would like to hear from you and your feedback.
Leave me a message if you need any help on anything. (:
Ever been crazy about something?, that could make you go KA-BOOM?. Well here is something, parents (ring a bell?). Parents, could make anything possible just by saying something and actually doing it. I know a lot of people could get upset or irritated, by their parents. Okay here is something, do you have a bad temper and could never control it?. Well there is a way to make your temper stop. Simple. Just stop. Think.
Q- I did, but I end up being worse. I can't do it. I don't know how I can think with my anger still inside me. How?
A- Well it could be hard, but you need to try even harder. When you can, go talk someone about it. Maybe even go try to see someone you really trust, since it's bad to hold something in. Well this is what I do if I can't control my temper with my parents.
Saying wrong?
Q- But what if, the things they said were wrong. But they put more words that I never said, and turned it into something that make me go more furious about.
A- Well:
If they do that, talk to them calmly.. don't yell back or you will make it worse. Since, some parents like it when they are right or just want to know something. Keep talking to them, but in a manner that will make yourself even more comfortable or until the limit. Well if you can't hold it in then just wait, and keep trying to hold it in. Then when the conversation is over, talk to them and say about all the wrong things they said [respectfully]. Remember all the things they said are thing for your incoming life. The words your parents are saying to you now, will help you later on. So don't be yelling to make it worse, even when you don't get it, but you think you do, then just think it over. Still can't get what they were saying because of your anger then just, simply sit yourself down. Watch something nice[something you like to do]. Drink. Use the restroom[wash your face or something else o.O].
Then when you feel a little better, just go to sleep or just stay awake with the argument y'all had. But the best result ending of this is that, just talk to them tomorrow about it when everything is calm, or don't say nothing at all. Well this is all I could do [for now] about this situation.
Any question on what to do? and also to add to this problem?
Well I would like to hear from you and your feedback.
Leave me a message if you need any help on anything. (:
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Depressed about family problems?
I know for sure that a lot of people have encounter this problem. I know that mostly kids get depress cause of family issues, I have seen a lot facing those sort of problems. Some people/kids want to find a person out there, who can listen and understand about their situation. But mostly they think there is nobody that could listen, and understand. There is a lot of people that's why we have friends. We make friends cause, we all get along and know each other well. Perhaps even love each other, your friends are always there for you to talk too. No matter what problem there is to deal with, they don't care if they have to go somewhere. They will put time away and stay by your side for as long as you like. It don't matter, each friend they are there. (if you have true a friend that is)
Family problems: Sure could make someone go crazy.
There are parents that won't let their child to go anywhere (don't have space or freedom). They are to over protected, but don't hate them. Since they do love you, even though you think that they don't know you much. But you are still just a child, when you grow up you will then understand what they were trying to tell you. Parents can make things disappear, as in friends. Some parents, take a way their kids privalge to have friends. Why is that?, its because they see that friends could make you change very easily. But parents don't really see (some) there kids could never change no matter how hard or bad their friends are. They might, but not change personally. There is a lot of things parents should catch up on, and kids should catch up on to.
But hey, everything happens cause its life. It still goes on even till this generation, really even though their is pain. There will be happiness at the end, but you got to understand some of the things that are happening.
Family problems: Sure could make someone go crazy.
There are parents that won't let their child to go anywhere (don't have space or freedom). They are to over protected, but don't hate them. Since they do love you, even though you think that they don't know you much. But you are still just a child, when you grow up you will then understand what they were trying to tell you. Parents can make things disappear, as in friends. Some parents, take a way their kids privalge to have friends. Why is that?, its because they see that friends could make you change very easily. But parents don't really see (some) there kids could never change no matter how hard or bad their friends are. They might, but not change personally. There is a lot of things parents should catch up on, and kids should catch up on to.
But hey, everything happens cause its life. It still goes on even till this generation, really even though their is pain. There will be happiness at the end, but you got to understand some of the things that are happening.
Monday, July 27, 2009
a whole begininng ...
There has been some mistakes, some regrets'. But there is also some signs, that tell me that there is always a way to change something that you did wrong.
- Parents
- Sorrow/Alone
- Never heard
- Not doing well
All these things happen in everyone life.. but well, there is something to that. There is always a person you could talk to.. even though your parents doesn't have time. But there is a person to reach out to and talk to. Remember you are not alone in this world, there are so much more people/kids that have made mistakes that wish they never did it in the first place.. I was one of them. This is my story.. of my whole life here and from now on.. more things that had happened that had strucked me. So now i will start taking my steps over again, my baby steps that is.
- Parents
- Sorrow/Alone
- Never heard
- Not doing well
All these things happen in everyone life.. but well, there is something to that. There is always a person you could talk to.. even though your parents doesn't have time. But there is a person to reach out to and talk to. Remember you are not alone in this world, there are so much more people/kids that have made mistakes that wish they never did it in the first place.. I was one of them. This is my story.. of my whole life here and from now on.. more things that had happened that had strucked me. So now i will start taking my steps over again, my baby steps that is.
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