Ever been crazy about something?, that could make you go KA-BOOM?. Well here is something, parents (ring a bell?). Parents, could make anything possible just by saying something and actually doing it. I know a lot of people could get upset or irritated, by their parents. Okay here is something, do you have a bad temper and could never control it?. Well there is a way to make your temper stop. Simple. Just stop. Think.
Q- I did, but I end up being worse. I can't do it. I don't know how I can think with my anger still inside me. How?
A- Well it could be hard, but you need to try even harder. When you can, go talk someone about it. Maybe even go try to see someone you really trust, since it's bad to hold something in. Well this is what I do if I can't control my temper with my parents.
Saying wrong?
Q- But what if, the things they said were wrong. But they put more words that I never said, and turned it into something that make me go more furious about.
A- Well:
If they do that, talk to them calmly.. don't yell back or you will make it worse. Since, some parents like it when they are right or just want to know something. Keep talking to them, but in a manner that will make yourself even more comfortable or until the limit. Well if you can't hold it in then just wait, and keep trying to hold it in. Then when the conversation is over, talk to them and say about all the wrong things they said [respectfully]. Remember all the things they said are thing for your incoming life. The words your parents are saying to you now, will help you later on. So don't be yelling to make it worse, even when you don't get it, but you think you do, then just think it over. Still can't get what they were saying because of your anger then just, simply sit yourself down. Watch something nice[something you like to do]. Drink. Use the restroom[wash your face or something else o.O].
Then when you feel a little better, just go to sleep or just stay awake with the argument y'all had. But the best result ending of this is that, just talk to them tomorrow about it when everything is calm, or don't say nothing at all. Well this is all I could do [for now] about this situation.
Any question on what to do? and also to add to this problem?
Well I would like to hear from you and your feedback.
Leave me a message if you need any help on anything. (:
thank you ... i will try tht if i cant i will talk 2 u... thanks ^-^ ...
ReplyDelete-lulu
Hi there, i am just looking around blogging place and i saw this. i had a problem like this, but i knew better then to yell back. since they are my parents. but i think you should put at the end is "you should know better then to yell back at your parents, think about what is happening then say whatever you need to say." but this is great by the way. ^^
ReplyDelete*christy
thanks for stopping by to read it. (:
ReplyDeletethis was for a friend of mines, that needed help.
thank you christy. (:
okay, lulu and like I said I am here to help you.
ReplyDeleteany problems, tell me. [aka call me or text me]
no problem.
ReplyDelete*christy
(:
ReplyDeletethanks ... ^-^
ReplyDelete-lulu