Asian parents are really ...

Asian parents sure do have everything in their control.

Lets just say HECK YEAH!

Well I have a best friend who is struggling in this problem. Guess what it is.

[]freedom

[]sex

[]school

[x]freedom

[]sex

[]school

Well freedom is a thing that most all kids want when they grow up. Well let not say kids, "teens" is the word for it.

Most teens want to live out their life now and show what they learned.

Am I right?

Or you just want to live your life how you want it.

Well either way "teens" just want there way of living.

Okay having parent trouble?

Lets say they figure something out about you having a boyfriend/girlfriend and they made a huge fuss about it and say things that make you really sad inside, but also mad.

Well?...

THAT HAPPENS.

Okay, some parents go way off about how they are treating their kids. Treating them like they are still little babys that don't know crap. Well sometimes you got to take this and show them you are not like that no more, you know what to do. You also know what your doing is wrong. Many parents think you don't do things right yet and still not old enough to have "much" freedom. Well they are wrong, okay to be honest. I don't want to say either side is bad or good. Since all you really need is a very calm and non yelling talk. Sit down and just talk if yell then what the heck yell back. I was KIDDING don't do that just still talk it over with them. If they say it doesn't matter then don't just listen to that and don't hate them. Well how could you hate your own mother/father.

Parent said:

"Do you hate me on what I said to about that ___?"

I said:

"how could I hate you, you are my father/mother"

Well they do things that hurt you and say mean things to you alot but, hear them out they are still trying to make a living for you and they raise you hard.

BUT well SOME PARENTS GOT TO STOP THAT!

As in come on they raise us up enough to know what is what now. They teach us enough to know how to walk out on our own.

Some parents got to wake up and look at their kids now. They are no longer babys nor kids. They are teens, that are about to be an adult. Well if you ever cried about a problem like that about your parents taking something percious to you away. Don't you dare cry, even though it may hurt. But don't cry, since it's not worth it. What they did to you was wrong, and taking everything away from you and not letting you go anywhere. When you are going to a higher school.

But in the end I can't really say this to fix this problem to those who have faced this. Since I didn't really face it.

But what I did face is that, about my parents taking away my friends. The thing I learned is that never to hold it in and let them do that to you. Because you didn't do anything wrong neither did they. But when things like that happened stand up and speak out. Let them listen even if they don't want to or don't care. Since they are your parents, let them in with your life as well.

They are sad enough that you are growing up and leaving them with only memories.

So I can't help you. Sorry. But listen don't hate them or be mad at them. Even though they did say something wrong.